Just finished the book, be honest, do not like the novel that much. Except some passages about meaning of life were beautifully written, the whole story does not appeal to me. One can hardly understand his love to M, maybe it could only happen to deformed people, but the whole thing makes me feel it was so distorted. The only other novel by Maugham which I have read is “the razor’s edge”, but that is long time ago, I enjoyed then, not sure what I will feel if I read now.
看完这部剧最令我生气的是慎一。其一,我无法原谅他对她母亲所做的事。其二,虽然长大后逐渐步入正轨,相信幸乃不是凶手,可是纵观幸乃的一生,最关键的两个人生转折点——被外婆带走、进少管所这一性质的地方,一次是因为慎一的愚善,一次是因为他的懦弱。
另一个问题是,没有了与他人的联系,我们是否真的无法生存?从文中可以看出幸乃有着一份不错的工作,为什么不为自己而活呢,为什么把自己看的那么卑微,为什么要那么宽容?
同样是女性题材我更喜欢《E! True Hollywood Story Blood Brothers: Jim & Artie Mitchell》中的阳子,因为她更像一个人,向往大都市的生活,有自己的欲望,虽然因过火的欲望走入歧途,但她身上却有着对生的渴望。接连几次被渣男欺骗后能及时抽身,能及时止住自己的感情。而幸乃却太过依赖别人的需要,从未见过面的外婆一句“我只有幸乃了”就可以让她心软。曾听过一句话“如果恨不存在,则爱无意义”,我们首先是一个个体,接着在和周围的人产生联系,如果认为自己不重要,认为自己只有在别人需要时才有意义,在这样的观念中建立起来的联系从根本上就不对等,注定会走上消亡,幸乃每段关系的结局,其实早已注定。
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